A Simple Tip On Teaching Our Children

October 27th, 2009

I met the mother of my daughter’s classmate yesterday. she is very very interested in education for children and she likes to deal with children.

She happened to be one of the playgroup teacher of Miloboy when he was 3 years old.

She shared with me a simple tip while chatting yesterday. She knew I am concerned with the kids’ mother tongue.

She recommended teaching the kids, say, 3 words/characters a day. She told that this method is easy and fast and should not be too much of a problem. Like me, she believes in instilling interest when learning.

Learning through play is best. I totally agree with that. I will try it and post the results.

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Speech & Occupational Therapy For ADHD Kids

October 24th, 2009

Miloboy is currently undergoing Speech & Occupational Therapy as recommended by his Doc over at Child Guidance Clinic.  Miloboy is slowly improving, at his own pace. I would like to share some of the activities we did.

Do note all of the below things I did are ‘customised’ for Miloboy.

Activity #1 – Playground Helps To Channel Excess Energy

I find bringing him to the playground very good to help him fall asleep at night, especially on days where he uses much energy, such as playing chasing.  The sessions last 45 mins each and there’s plenty of recommendations by the therapists to do at home with Miloboy.

But, the therapists do warn that we should not force the kids when they do not want to.

It is not easy to get ADHD kids to do homework.  Same for those “exercises” that the therapists ask me to.

Activity #2 – Read Out Loud

Tip – Praise & Encouragement For The Kids

Miloboy knew he could not read very well. Sometimes, when he is stressed up, he stammers and tends to read the same word twice in a sentence. But when he is relaxed, he can actually read quite well. I do strongly suggest PRAISE & ENCOURAGEMENT for all kids when they did well. It works for Miloboy.

Activity #3 – Star Jumps For Hand Leg Coordination

I will also do Star Jumps with Miloboy to improve his hand leg coordination. But Miloboy does not fancy that. He only did it once (I had asked him to do it with me for 4 days in a row). Got to keep asking…. Don’t give up!

Activity #4 – Paste papers on wall for writing/drawing

I also pasted mahjong papers (white paper) on the walls to get him to write and train his wrist muscles, at the same time, teaching him Past Tense. This is a pretty common activity but Miloboy likes it.

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I will share more activities that we did as we go along. So far Miloboy has gone for 4 therapies for the past one month.I am glad that I am not working so that I can bring him there weekly.  Gotta count the blessings.

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Missing Fundamental Learning In Primary Schools

October 14th, 2009

When I was a 7 year old grade school kid, I can still remember that the first few years of school are what we called, Fundamentals Of Learning. Everything was nicely paced and there was little to no stress.

However, it could also be because at that point in time, we are mostly raised in families that spoke our own mother tongue rather than English. So, most of the kids like me only aim for a passing grade in English. I remember I have to crunch my Primary English Textbook very very hard, English is so hard to learn.

Now that Miloboy’s in Primary One. I am so shocked that he has to learn SO MANY things in one year. He learnt the Nouns, to common Nouns, then proceed on to Singular and Plural of animals, to Singular and Plural Forms of Verbs, to Punctuation (include speech based punctuation) then Present Tense, Present Continuous Tense to PAST TENSE….

That’s basically his syllabus for Primary One. I am real amazed by the fact that our Ministry of Education Singapore did such a Compressed English Syllabus for 7 year olds, when they really should be focusing on strengthening their English, instead, they chose to move on with speed to the deeper levels of English.

That is not all.

All Primary One kids are supposed to be able to write a minimum of 60 words based on a 4 picture sequential story telling composition by the final term. The model answers given by the teachers are Full of Adjectives and one look at it tells me, its not something that all 7 year olds can do…. well, ironically, those kids that receive Enrichment Courses might be able to do it.

Miloboy missed a point to the passing mark on a mock storytelling composition. But I really can’t blame him. What he wrote were very simple sentences.

E.g. Model Answer Opening: It was a bright Sunday morning with beautiful white fluffy clouds. My mother exclaimed, “Why don’t we go to the beach?”.

Miloboy’s Opening: Last week, we went to the beach.

On several other occasions, Miloboy mixed up Singular and Plural forms of verbs with the Past Tense.

E.g. Do (Present Tense), Did (Past Tense), Miloboy told me the Past Tense of ‘Do’ is ‘Does’.

These made me realise that the Fundamental Teachings are gone…. They compressed so much stuff in one year, for the poor 7 year olds. I wonder by what age they need to write Reported Speech. That is one of the most difficult part of English.

Even so, you know, teachers also make mistakes. They also get confused  at times. I have seen errors in their marking before, let alone the poor 7 year olds who have to digest so much stuff in one year?

PS: When will it ever end? (Quoted by the Drow Ranger in DOTA)….
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Some Photos On The One Week Holiday

October 14th, 2009

These are some photos taken during the one week school holiday. ^^

Holiday Activities

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Holiday Activities

Eating ice-cream

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I like to talk to the kids

September 11th, 2009

Today is a rainy day. I thought I can bring them to IMM, a shopping mall that has small playgrounds at the 3rd and 4th level. Unfortunately, due to the rain, I cancelled the plan.

Both kids spent 2 days (yesterday and today) at home… They drew and they played with each other. The funniest thing yesterday was that Sweetie ACTUALLY DREW ON MY WALL……Gosh….

I am not angry with her, really.

I am just …. I don’t know if I should laugh or cry….hehe ^^

The drawings at the wall look kinda nice though. I will upload a picture when I am able to, maybe next week.

The kids are funny. I wanted Miloboy to go take a bath, and he refused. I told him jokingly I will soap him up into a BubbleBoy, and he will smell really good. He retorted back jokingly, “You’ll soap me to death! hahahahahaa”.

We had a good laugh.

I had brought the kids to have a nice lunch on Wednesday. Then we went to look for swimming costumes as I want to sign Miloboy up for swimming lessons. The ADHD Doctor had said that sports will be good for Miloboy. I have not contacted any swimming instructor nor looked for one yet. I will look for one, maybe after the seventh lunar month of the Chinese calendar.

PS: I think I forgot to update that the plan to get a Japanese Private Tutor for Sweetie failed. The Japanese teacher contacted me that she was returning to Japan and could not, therefore, take up any more jobs. Sad….
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